The original definition:
A diva is a great female opera singer, a prima donna, such as Renata Tebaldi, Joan Sutherland, Leontyne Price, Maria Callas or Kiri te Kanawa.
However, the term is now also used to refer to an outstanding popular female performer of non-operatic works, such as Whitney Houston, Madonna, Patti Labelle, Cher, Mariah Carey, Diana Ross, Celine Dion, and Aretha Franklin, who are often referred to as divas due to their success and talent.
Also, some prominent women adored in gay male pop culture are referred to as divas, such as Kathy Griffin, Joy Behar, and Joan Rivers.
The term was originally used to describe a woman of rare, outstanding talent. It derives from the Italian word 'divina', meaning "divine" (feminine form), which, in turn, derives from the feminine form of the Latin word divus/diva, meaning "divine one." TIME magazine observed in its October 21, 2002 issue: "By definition, a diva was originally used for great female opera singers, almost always sopranos."
In mythology, the divas are the lowest forms of divinity, such as the wood nymphs[citation needed].
In ballet, the equivalent of a diva is a prima ballerina assoluta.
The term is often used with a negative connotation. This derives from the implication that a star who is a "diva" is arrogant, difficult to work with, high-maintenance, manipulative, fussy, highly strung, and/or demanding. Professional actors often use this term to describe someone who desires the stage spotlight over others.
Or somebody who lives in a fantasy world, wanting to emulate the lifestyle of their celebrity icons. 'Trying to live the life' thinking this is what life really is.
I think boys can be Diva's too, don't you?